He is a 31 M and I am a 29 F
EDIT : we have sex once every 2 weeks. When I’m ovulating I tend to be more willing to have sex so during that week it’s like 2-3 times. I also pull some weight by working 3 days a week
. The last few months he’s been telling me his coworkers have sex with their husbands when the husband ask. He’s been overhearing their conversations at work apparently. (He’s one of the few male nurses at his location) I for one don’t just agree to doing that. Sex should be mutual. Not something to be done because the man said so.
We have 3 kids (6, 4 and a still breast fed 2 years old) I cook and clean and do things with the kiddos all the way to bed time. When he comes home from work her either takes a nap or hops on the game. By the end of the night I’m exhausted. It’s been difficult for me to have any type of sex drive due to everything around me and I’ve been used in relationships for sex before so I take my No’s to sex seriously. But because of this he told me I’m not caring for his needs.
I understand he does a lot for our family and that working at 4 am isn’t easy. I give him his rest. I let him do as he pleases. I’m just drained. Half the time he has a chance when the girls are asleep but he’s still gaming by the time I get to sleepy to bother with sex.
Now this has driven a wedge in our relationship. Am I wrong?
EDIT #2 : did not expect so much traction on here. I appreciate any and all comments and advice. This place has been a safe zone for my thoughts even if it’s invalid or not. So you’re messages are appreciated if you agree or disagree with me I’ll take them all into consideration. I’d like to respond to everyone but alas. I have children I need to attend. ☺️
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