Thursday, August 3, 2023

Am I wrong to ask my bf for his SSN?

I want to run a background check on my boyfriend. I’m pretty sure he’s a catfish.

We have been talking for over a year and have never met in person. He says his phone is broken and we have never spoken face to face on a video call.

He has asked me for money, promising to pay me back, and I haven’t seen a penny. I gave him money for a flight and he canceled. He didn’t return the flight money. He makes me send him money through crypto.com.

He doesn’t sound like a scammer. He sounds like he cares. He has decent excuses. But he has avoided visiting me in person and he has admitted to lying to me about how he spent some of the money I sent him.

He wants my login information for myid.com. He says eeds it to complete an application so he can get money to visit me. Something about me being a personal reference.

But he won’t explain what the application is for in detail and he won’t let me fill it out myself. So I told him if he needs that info, he should give me the same info in return.

He says he doesn’t have his social security number…even though he was, apparently, filing out financial paperwork. He won’t give me his state ID number either, for a license or something.

Am I wrong for asking? Am I wrong for wanting to run a background check on him?

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