I say this because I feel that not only transparency is great when it comes to interacting with those you way want to be potentially for the long run, but I also feel this is just the respectful thing to do as well.
Like for instance, if there’s a man that now identifies as a woman, who has transitioned into being a woman, I feel like if a heterosexual man comes and talks to the trans person in this hypothetical, I feel the trans person should let it be know that they’re a trans person if the heterosexual male isn’t aware of this before they have sex if that’s where things seem to be leading.
I’m not going to make it seem like it’s just very common to have one night stands and have sex with somebody hours after meeting them, but if you’ve been out on the scene, you know things like this happen. Especially when you factor in that people are intoxicated, maybe going through a stressful relationship/breakup and want to have some fun, etc. I just feel that a trans person should make it known to this person that they’re trans before they have sex. Due to the fact that I feel it’s the respectful thing to do to allow this person the choice to continue this encounter or not. If when they’re informed that the person they’re talking to is trans and it doesn’t bother them and they want to continue their time with them, then that’s absolutely fine. But if they decide that they don’t want to deal with said trans person, then I feel that’s also fine as well. I just feel they should be given that choice before sex. Am I wrong?
*I have no hatred towards the LBGTQ community nor trans people. I accept everyone for who they are.
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