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I’m looking for monogamy and she wanted to explore enm at this stage of her life. I said I was cool with dating an enm person casually but I’d still be looking for my person. We hung out 3 times and had a lot of fun. No regrets 😊 [link] [comments] |
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Article URL: https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/social-search-plus/gkjijpllljghgoahellmkbpallaklfcc
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37663538
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Article URL: https://9to5mac.com/2023/09/23/limewire-yes-that-limewire-is-back-but-with-a-twist/
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37625990
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Article URL: https://www.eetimes.com/andrew-ng-the-ai-text-revolution-is-coming-to-images/
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37615956
Points: 2
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Hey HN! I wanted to share an experiment I ran that tests the performance of RSC vs traditional client-side React on one of our product websites (productonboarding.com). I know RSC is a bit of a controversial topic since server-side rendering used to be an ancient paradigm with the shift to modern JS frameworks. As such, I went into the experiment with a healthy dose of skepticism.
To test this out, I conducted an experiment where I built an RSC version and a traditional client-side React version of the same website and measured performance. We were able to improve our bundle size and speed by 62% and 63%, respectively. You can find the whole writeup here. https://ift.tt/wJ2LArV
I actually enjoyed building with RSC more than I expected to, and it made for a better user experience since it rendered almost 3x faster than the client version.
Would love to hear any feedback and thoughts on our experiment. Have you started to use React Server Components yet, or no? Have you seen similar results?
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37601865
Points: 1
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Article URL: https://lifehacker.com/youtube-lets-you-sort-videos-by-color-now-for-some-rea-1850818142
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37588078
Points: 5
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My F23 and boyfriend M22 got into a huge argument and he’s given me two days to “come clean” and I’m not sure what to do about it.
For context, We’ve been dating for a year now and we’ve had our fair share of ups and down. Last year, he’d found out that I was sexually assaulted several years ago and it created a huge fight between us. He’d accused me of hiding it from him. Moreover, he demanded to know about any past relationship experiences I have had. We solved this and talked it through and moved on. Or I thought we did
He’s been going through a lot of family issues lately so I’ve been giving him support. (He’s out of the country at the moment so our relationship has moved to long distance). His coping mechanism is making jokes, they’re not funny tbh and can be quite hurtful at times.
So last night while I was talking to him, he kept making jokes about withdrawing from sex after marriage. (We come from a religious background so we are celibate until marriage). He says that there’s no point until we need to have kids so kept trying to jokingly ask to go through the back door instead. I kept attempting to change the topic and he would bring it up again, so I shut it down because this is related to my sexual assault. Rather than apologizing he exploded at me saying that I didn’t think about how my assault effects him and how it makes him feel. And that I need to see it from his perspective.
Also I do martial arts, I was training for the team and my training partners are mostly men. He says that he was hurt that I was training with other guys behind his back without his permission.
He says he’s going to give me two days to come clean about anything else in my past that he doesn’t know about. Honestly, I’m feeling lost. how should I handle this situation ?
EDIT: For those of you telling me to move out. I just need to clarify that I have my own place. We don’t share any residence or finances. He doesn’t have the keys to my place either
Also about the jokes, he’s not asking to go through the back door now. He’s saying it in a “if we were married” context. I’m not justifying his actions at all, but just to clear up some confusion
Also I’m celibate by choice. Being sexually assaulted severely traumatized me that I’d rather wait until I married
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Article URL: https://www.scopeofwork.net/on-gravel/
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37547966
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Article URL: https://remix.run/blog/remix-v2
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37537085
Points: 3
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Article URL: https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2023/09/12/1197874002/umami-savory-taste-history
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37485621
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submitted by /u/LividJaffaCake to r/gaming [link] [comments] |
Article URL: https://blog.horizon-eda.org/misc/2020/02/19/ui.html
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37458711
Points: 1
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Article URL: https://www.climatedrift.com/p/lab-grown-meat-is-not-a-climate-solution
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37448476
Points: 16
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This happened yesterday, my boyfriend and I were throwing a little kickback for my birthday party. His cousin Alexa (19) set a timer on her phone because we were baking pastries. Her timer went off and a song caught my attention, we were already done in the kitchen so we were just sitting down letting it play on the couch and I asked “who is this artist?” And she flat-out ignored me. I asked her again “I never heard this song, can I have the name?” . That’s when she told me If I don’t know then I just don’t know and that I should just stick to mainstream. I told her I listen to everything but she tried to tell me that she knows my music taste and all I listen to are “stupid rappers” and named Kendrick Lamar as an example. We got into a little debate about King Kenny for awhile and she told me that the song was made by a small artist and trying to decipher his lyrics might hurt my shallow mind.
I got fed up and Shazammed the song. It was Mary-Alex G. When she saw me saving it to my playlist she got up and snatched her phone then stormed out. I ignored her little tantrum but then her brother came to me and asked what I did to her because she told everyone I was being argumentative with her, bullied her and violated her privacy. When I said I don’t understand how anything of what I said came off as “bullying” because we just talked about music and I Shazammed her song but her brother actually agreed and said that was invasive and weird for me to do. They packed some plates and left abruptly and I was just left feeling so weird about it.
Everyone else stayed and I enjoyed the rest of my party. This morning my boyfriend’s mom texted me and said that I should probably call her niece aka Alexa and apologize for “going through her phone for a song” and “using some hacking device”. She texted me Alexa’s number to apologize and I texted her “Don’t get hung on petty things”. Next thing you know her big brother is calling me, I haven’t answered my phone yet and have like 5 missed calls.
Is Shazam invasive and am I in the wrong?
Edit: My boyfriend just called his mom to explain the full story and she just started laughing because Alexa completely twisted the entire situation and is trying to tell everyone I hacked her phone just to make fun of her music and tried to “force” her to listen to “gangster” rap.
My boyfriend just called his cousin (Alexa’s older brother) and told him not to bring her over anymore and now she’s crying. She sent some paragraphs I am not reading, she’s blocked until she apologizes to me.
This little girl is a compulsive liar. I just can’t believe so much drama because of a song. I’m not going to let this ruin my birthday weekend though.
Update: Lol this was sooner than I thought it would be but my boyfriend just handed me his phone with her on the line crying and apologizing. She said her behavior was because of PMS and she’s sorry for starting drama on my birthday. I honestly think she just got embarrassed for getting caught in her lie. Everyone knows that she stretches the truth too and when she got a little backlash I guess that was too much for her.
Article URL: https://techgaun.github.io/active-forks/
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37437448
Points: 2
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Article URL: https://matt-rickard.com/why-fast
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37423528
Points: 2
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Article URL: https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-023-02595-5
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37409346
Points: 1
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This tool renames all classes/ids and changes simple selectors like div into classes to sandbox your HTML/CSS. The goal is to make it not affect the destination page whenever you paste the HTML/CSS somewhere else.
I have an extension to create snippets called SnipCSS. I use the same code to scope the snippets before using them. If you have some HTML/CSS you want to reuse on another site but named your classes common things like "container", run it through this first and you'll spend less time fixing how it looks afterwards.
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37409330
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Article URL: https://www.msn.com/en-us/sports/nfl/insider-gives-replace-on-travis-kelce-s-potential-return-date/ar-AA1girgh
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37409321
Points: 1
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Article URL: https://9to5mac.com/2023/09/06/siri-shortcuts-chatgpt-apple/
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37409314
Points: 1
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Article URL: https://github.com/veerashayyagari/anthropic-sdk-dotnet
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37409310
Points: 1
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Article URL: https://wis-wander.weizmann.ac.il/life-sciences/human-embryo-models-grown-stem-cells
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37409283
Points: 12
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Article URL: https://www.phoronix.com/news/Linux-6.6-Optimize-Lacking-ERMS
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37395457
Points: 1
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The opening sequence of a movie sets the tone and grabs the audience's attention. For me, the opening sequence of Inglourious Basterds is on a whole different level. The build-up, the suspense, and the exceptional acting are simply top-notch. It completely captivated me, and I didn't even care how the rest of the movie would be because that opening sequence was enough to sell me on it. Tarantino's signature style shines through, making it his greatest opening sequence in my opinion. What's yours?
Long story short: my wife of 14 years had an affair and left me. She made the vast majority of the money, I had a flexible job that let me take the kids to appointments, keep cars maintained, practical stuff like that.
I’m now basically starting over in another state, and a super rural part of the state as well. I feel hopeless that I’ll ever meet anyone again, let alone someone that shares my interests and finds a dad bod attractive.
I feel like dating apps are a non-starter as I’m not photogenic at all. I don’t drink either. And I’m guessing the part where I’m divorced and have kids will be a hindrance too. Maybe I should just go be a monk or something.
Article URL: https://medium.com/@SymeCloud/play-llama2-and-play-it-well-2d143f4164ac
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37364035
Points: 1
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Article URL: https://github.com/mxgmn/WaveFunctionCollapse
Comments URL: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37354731
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Don't get me wrong I do have some respect for their profession. But no one bridging the gap between buyer and seller should be making 25, 50, $100,000 dollars+ on selling a home just because it was located in Beverley Hills.
At the end of the day I guess it's often the seller's decision to get a realtor involved to make the process easier - I just can't wrap my head around their commission.
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