I am 23 years old, married, and have one child that is 4. We met when I was 18, and he was 32 turning 33. We already have a rough marriage but some things he has said has really hurt and upset me.
My husband (37M) made a comment that when he watched porn he didn’t like the “big labias” with all the “loose extra skin hanging around”.
He said he often clicked out of that porn and didn’t enjoy watching it. He said he likes the “tight labias”.
This made me really repulsed for some reason.
Not sure why, but I’m having a hard time figuring out if I’m wrong for being offended.
He just went on about how “gross” it was and something in me immediately just wanted to never have sex with him again.
I guess I felt offended for body shaming women? Ugh.
**Also, I wanted to add. My husband was a virgin when he met me at 32. I was with my grandparents buying my first car, and he was the car salesman. That’s how we met.
I was his first relationship, first girlfriend. He said he went on dates and they just “never worked out”. I’m starting to see exactly why. He got himself so used to porn, he can’t even stay hard with a real person or during sex. It flabbergasts me he has such opinions, giving his own situation.
He still has problem maintaining erections to this day, and I subconsciously wonder if now it’s because he compares my own body to what he seen in the porn.
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