I'm a 23F and this guy in his 40's is really creeping me out. A couple weeks ago he came up to me while I was stretching and said "I would pay for you to teach me how to be as flexible as you are". I didn't say much I was just so shocked that he said that to me. And then again today he saw me go into the gym and sat on a workout bench beside me and said "how's the flexibility today?" Excuse me, what?! I just said "good." and left that area right away. If he tries to talk to me again, what should I say? I'm not a confrontational person and I'm pretty timid but I want to say something to him that will get him to leave me alone.
edit: so I got a really aggressive message from u/Importantask4 saying "you fuckin cunts get more sensitive ever damn year". It's not just what the guy said, he was also checking me out, and looking at me like he was mentally undressing me. If the guy just simply wanted to be more flexible, he wouldn't be checking me out the entire time I was at the gym, a woman who is 20 or 30 years younger than him. C'mon guys. This isn't ok.
Edit 2: ok guys I get it, I need to be firm and clearly tell him I'm not interested/just want to focus on my workout without interruptions etc. I have anxiety so in the moment I froze up and didn't know what to say to the guy.
Edit 3: I didn't expect this post to blow up so I will go into detail about what the guy said to me a few weeks ago. "hey sorry to bother you but you are really flexible, how did you get to be so flexible? I would pay you to teach me how to be more flexible" all the while looking me up and down. A lot of people have said maybe he legit wants to be more flexible. But prior to this he was staring at me, not just glancing at me, full on staring. He continued to do this after talking to me, and he was clearly checking me out. Saying you will pay a woman to teach you to be flexible obviously has a double meaning. I'm at the gym to get strong, not to get hit on by middle aged men. To the people with constructive and mature comments, I really appreciate it!
Edit 4: I'm trying to address all the kind/helpful comments and messages but I don't have time today, thank you all for your words of encouragement and advice, I will try and message people back when I can! Good night everyone 😊
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