Saturday, November 3, 2018

Part 3 of the dinner date.

By November 03, 2018 , No comments

Again, if you haven’t read the others do it now part 1 and 2 are up. I should write a novel at this point.

Got home about 40 minutes ago and by then I calmed down (after smoking a cig which I never do) and went upstairs. She immediately knew something was off with me and I asked her how the new restaurant was “oh it was full so we got mcdonald’s, went to the gas station, sat in the parking lot and talked. The time frame is still not believable at all tbh. I will post the convo with time stamps below.

girlfriend leaves at 5:50 pm

her: this place is packed asf 6:24 me: it is a friday night 6:45 her: we are going to the new restaurant, this place is too full 6:52 her: hey i’m home! 8:13

So between 6:52 and 8:13 they drove 45 minutes, went to mcdonald’s and talked at a gas station? Not even counting the unaccounted 30 minutes before the first text.

I told her it was rude for her to just change plans and drive out somewhere else. She kept on just saying sorry sarcastically not actually meaning it. I told her I was okay with her getting pizza and coming home, not going all over the place for 2 hours. I brought up that when I offered for him to come over it was a different excuse each time. “oh friday’s our day” I said it’s funny how friday’s our day yet you went out to eat with him tonight. Why didn’t you want him over when I offered “because he talks for hours and would have been here till like 10 so i just wanted to get dinner and come home” I said “why didn’t you just say that then?” meanwhile i’m being insanely calm while simultaneously wanting to put my fist through a wall. She basically went silent after just repeating sorry “i won’t ever go out again then” “i won’t ever hang out with him again” “i should have just gone home” all sarcastically. She got her stuff and walked out. 20 minutes later she comes home and I tried to talk to her again. I was still calm and trying to talk saying “it’s not that it was you going out to eat it’s that plans changed” she says “well first it was this and it’s not that, then what is it?!” “you wouldn’t be like this if it was one of my girlfriends” i said “yeah because i know your girlfriends and trust them. I don’t trust a guy i’ve never met with my gf going who knows where” she got all upset it was obvious. I said “oh so you’re mad because i brought up the way you made me feel?” she goes: “nope sorry that you say i don’t care about your feelings and that i don’t respect you.” I start talking and then she goes “IM DONE” then gets up and fucking goes downstairs into the guest room. Wtf? i’m beyond done at this point and she’s just digging the hole deeper and deeper. Will keep everyone posted, thanks!

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 Part 3 of the dinner date.

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